Email response

A few of my friends have responded asking me if I blame them or the elders for my disappointments judging from how I phrased my words.

Seriously, what would blaming do? Solve the situation? Make things better? Heal my scars? Blaming is useless according to Louise Hay. It gives away our power. I neither blame anyone nor want to make anyone responsible or accountable for what I went through. The past is done. Nothing can change it. A wise nun told a dear friend of mine this :

We cannot change the past but we can learn from our past.